From Stuck to Thriving: How Feng Shui Transformed Stephanie’s Home and Life
The moment I walked into Stephanie's apartment, it hit me—heavy, stagnant energy hanging in the air like a thick fog. Something wasn't right. So I asked her, the way I always do, “What's going on? What feels good, and what's just…not?”
Stephanie's story began with a breakup and a move back to her old neighborhood. This apartment was supposed to be her fresh start, a retreat from the chaos of the world. At first, it worked. She loved her balcony, the space she'd once found solace in. But then, the pandemic hit—and everything shifted.
The walls of this once peaceful home began to feel suffocating. Stephanie was working from home now, and the boundaries between her career and personal life disappeared. She hated her job, felt undervalued, and couldn't escape it even in the comfort of her apartment. But it wasn't just work that was draining her—it was the space itself.
She shared with me that, during the pandemic, she made an impulsive decision to get rid of the purple sofa she once loved, the one she and her ex had shared. She figured it was time to clear out old energy. But the new couch she bought didn't feel right from the start—especially when she realized it faced away from the window she used to gaze out of every morning to watch the sunrise.
Things hadn't been much better inside the rest of her home. She confessed that she'd developed a hoarding habit—collecting things “just in case.” Cabinets were stuffed with items she didn't need. A new console table sat unopened in its box, waiting for a moment that never came. Her sanctuary had turned into a prison of clutter and confusion. And now, she was wondering: Was it time to move?
I could tell right away: the root of the issue wasn't just her furniture—it was the energy in her space. Every decision, while well-intentioned, had added more confusion and discomfort. Her living room had become a battlefield of emotions, memories, and outdated energy.
We started with a simple but powerful step: decluttering. I suggested we tackle the console table first. She hesitated, unsure of where to begin, but I reminded her, “Even if we move the furniture around, the energy will still be stuck in all the things you're holding onto.”
So, we dove in. The first item we picked up? A yoga mat, given to her by her company. It was practical, but she had never used it. I held it up and asked, “Do you actually use this?” Her answer? No. Into the donation pile it went.
One by one, we cleared out the old and rearranged the space to allow energy to flow more freely. We set up her space into distinct zones—one for living, and one for work.The biggest change? We repositioned the sofa so Stephanie could once again face the window, reclaiming the morning ritual she'd lost.
When we finished, Stephanie immediately noticed the difference. It wasn't just tidier. It felt lighter. The energy in the room had shifted. Her space was now open, balanced, and filled with clarity.
A week later, she called me with a surprise: she felt more energized and motivated than she had in months. And it wasn't just her apartment that felt different—she felt different. There was a renewed sense of optimism and a clarity she hadn't had in a long time.
Months passed, and Stephanie reached out again. This time, she had news: she'd been contacted about a job she hadn't even applied for. It was more in line with her values, and the process was effortless. She landed the position—and the salary? Beyond her expectations. But that wasn't all. After years of disappointing dates, Stephanie met someone who felt like a perfect fit for her life. For the first time, her career and love life felt grounded and aligned.
Here's what I want you to take away
Our homes reflect our mindset. If we can shift our homes, we can shift our mindset. Changing the energy in our space opens up possibilities for change in every area of our lives.
When you don't make these changes, you stay stuck in cycles of stagnation and chaos. But when you take action? You walk into your space and instantly feel lighter, more focused, and ready to tackle anything life throws at you.
This is what I do: I help people like Stephanie—homeowners, renters, anyone who feels disconnected from their space—create homes that truly reflect who they are. Whether it's a mismatch of hand-me-down furniture, overwhelming clutter, or a sense that your space doesn't feel like you, I use a combination of Feng Shui and Interior Design to create environments that bring peace, comfort, and abundance. If you're ready to shift your space and start seeing those changes ripple out into the rest of your life, let's talk. Sign up for a Home Energy Clarity Session today!
