5 Powerful Plants to Invite Love, Growth, and Harmony into Your Home This Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day always brings me back to the heart of what truly matters—the everyday acts of care that nourish the things we cherish most, whether that’s a relationship, a passion project, or simply the way we tend to ourselves. While the world is busy focusing on grand romantic gestures, I’ve been thinking about the quieter, more intimate ways love shows up in our lives. It’s in the way we nurture our homes, carve out time for reflection, and perform those little acts of kindness that keep the energy of love flowing.
If I’m being honest, this hasn’t always come easily for me. There’s something deeply vulnerable in letting ourselves truly care—not just for others, but for ourselves. I’m great at showing up for the people I love, but it took me a while to realize how essential it is to show up for myself, too. Sometimes, that looks like taking a moment to breathe, to slow down, and to be present in my space.
This year, for Valentine’s Day, I want to share something that’s helped me shift that perspective: plants.
For me, plants have always been a way to bring in fresh energy. In Feng Shui, they represent the wood element—symbolizing kindness, flexibility, and healing. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that love in all its forms needs those same qualities.
Plants remind us to be present. They ask for our care, but they also give so much in return. They grow, they adapt, and they fill our homes with life. Whether you're looking to attract new love, strengthen an existing relationship, or simply create a space where you feel nurtured, certain plants can help set the tone:
Here are a few plants that I find especially meaningful right now—plants that can help bring more self-love and harmony into your space:
🌱 Peace Lily – This one’s close to my heart. It purifies the air, yes, but it’s also a gentle reminder that peace starts within. In a chaotic world, this plant invites calm and balance into your space.
💚 Jade Plant – Sometimes, I find myself thinking about what I’m not doing enough of, but this plant reminds me to look at what’s thriving. The Jade Plant symbolizes abundance and stability, reminding me to appreciate what’s already flourishing in my life and to trust that growth takes time.
🌸 Orchid – This one is for patience and beauty, something I always need to remind myself of. Orchids can be delicate, but when cared for, they bloom in the most magnificent way. They remind me to be gentle with my own growth and to allow myself to bloom in my own time.
🌿 Ivy – I’ll admit, there have been times when I’ve felt disconnected or uncertain about my place in the world. The ivy plant reminds me that connection doesn’t always have to be immediate or perfect. It grows steadily and adapts, showing me that love and relationships can thrive, even when they take time and patience.
🍃 Pothos – If you’re new to plant care (or just need something low-maintenance), this is the one to start with. Pothos is forgiving, resilient, and thrives even with minimal attention. Its resilient growth is a reminder that love can bloom even in unexpected places. It encourages us to be adaptable and open, letting things grow where they feel most comfortable.
For me, these plants are more than decor—they are lessons. Each time I tend to them, I’m reminded to show that same care to myself. To be patient, to allow space for growth, and to nurture what I want to see flourish in my life.
Remember, love is a practice, not a destination.
If you’re ready to invite more love, care, and harmony into your home, start with the energy of your space. Whether you’re looking to refresh your home’s Feng Shui, create a nurturing environment, or simply bring in more beauty and balance, I’d love to help. Schedule Design Alignment Call to explore how we can transform your space into one that truly supports your growth—emotionally, energetically, and physically. Let’s create a home that reflects the love and intention you deserve.
